Life isnt over just because the guy you have been working hard to win back is with another woman
. Actually, this is the best chance for you to start working to get back into a relationship with your ex. The reason for that is your ex has started the rebound relationship phase, which means he is working on getting comfortable putting his feelings out there for people to see again.
Just because your ex is on the rebound doesnt mean hes over you or even trying to get over you. Hes just trying to cope with not being with you. Its hard to go from being around each other all the time to not having that person with you. A rebound relationship is also a means of healing the heart and learning to trust another human being again. Often people say they dont want to get back in a relationship because theyve been hurt one too many times. A rebound relationship will help you start building trust again.
Rarely do rebound relationships last longer than two weeks or a few dates. Its more just an opportunity to get back into the game and rebuild some confidence. Its actually a course of action many people might suggest you take in order to really prepare yourself to face another long-term relationship.
Even if you dont feel comfortable dating someone else for a short time, you dont have to become overly anxious that your ex has completely forgotten about you just because hes on a date with someone else. Let him heal his own way. By showing hes willing to date again, hes showing you a door wide open for a second opportunity.