The only person whom you can trust anytime is you yourself
. At least you wont ditch yourself ever. You would always think of yourself no matter what the situation demand. You will be the only person you will be favouring all the time.
You would have heard that comment Listen to everyones point but follow what you think is best. Its the best quote that I had come across and it should be followed by everyone. This could be seen in every phase of life. You have to make choices but before choosing you ask for suggestions. Other give their valuable comments but they hardly look the matter seriously before giving their conclusion. We just cant blame them if we act upon their conclusion. Also blaming others will only spoil the relationship; there is no way we can change the past. So its better to take our own decision and later to blame ourselves if it affects in a negative way.
You could see such things in a share market or investment sector wherein members blame others for inducing them to invest in it such shares or investment. Many times investor also praises others when they earn some superlative profits over their invested amount. Such cases are rare but this explains how we behave with each other.
I still remember those days when I spoiled a relationship by blaming him for a thing which he suggested. He suggested me to invest in Pancard club investment scheme. He told that it was the best investment scheme. It was after his suggestion I invested in the holiday investment scheme. After some time there was a rumour about Pancard Club being a fraud scheme initiated to cheat people. When I heard this rumour I couldnt control my emotions and I started bursting on him. I dont know why I did it but I did it very irresponsibly.
After this scene we were not in good terms and by three to four months I came to know the rumour which I had heard was completely false. Pancard clubs limited was not a fraud scheme. I reacted without knowing the truth. I received a mail from my friend then telling me about the genuineness of the scheme. In spite of my repeated apologies our relationship was never same as before.
Its the reason I said you yourself should be responsible for the decision you take.