Noodles in my head!!!!

Noodles in my head!!!!

Noodles in my head!!!!

Hello....

mmm... This is the first time I am writing. Well the question that 1st comes to my mind is "Why??".Well to that - As "I always have some opinion about everything", but actually; I recently got married. I was working in a different city in South India, moved to North. Its been 3 months to my marriage, I am trying very hard to understand man - woman anatomy. Thoughts are just beaming in my brain, my husband is a quiet type and I am the talkative one. It has been the the 1st time for me that i am the part of the "wife jokes", where the poor husband is slogging like a donkey and his little happy life is miserable after marriage.

Well my husband is too good but now that he is the part of the husband gang, even he can't escape such jokes. I feel bad, and then I imagine, Why are there NO or few jokes on Husbands??? I might be the one starting it.

But the question is; why women don't joke about husbands? I mean leave the super educated scholarly women who write about men and there addicted to sex weakness.... I mean generally, women like me or you!!!! Are we scared of coming out of the "ADARSH" biwi image, or do we want to score a point for a future fight? I mean when we fight then I have a point to tell that "You joked about me and I just gulped my insult" (So great of me!). So that's where an instant "Sorry" comes.... And "I win".

I believe women also do so much, we leave our friends, our set job n career (in my case), we happily accept new relatives, husband's friends.... and then... Don't tell me men slog like a donkey!!!! I think men just want to be pitied!!!! They want to be pitied on most of the things like arrogant boss, nagging landlord, protective mom, nosy dad, demanding girl friend, pathetic car/bike and bossy wife (Really??? Try telling the Hotel waiter that you want your eggs poached and not fried!!!!)

My mom said, that a man is only pampered by one person all his life... that's his mother (before marriage) and wife (rest of his life). No other person will take his tantrums and attitude except his wife, So when a man is bossy and rude at office, just understand he is being pressed under the thumb at home.... And still the poor man is soooooo unhappy and tamed after marriage!!!!

I mean I was happy, living in a girls PG, coming from office, dumping bag, eating food or going out, having my own friends, say anything, have lots of gossip about other girls in PG... but now its like cook dinner... he might like it or not, keep house clean, keep things in order etc.... Its like I married and I kicked off all the vacations for the rest of my life. I can't lie down on Sundays, I cant keep the bed messed up, and there are so many things. Not that my husband says anything... He is a very cool guy... but all this is in my head!!!! I am a good wife and a Home Maker!!! I can't keep things messed up, am I obsessed with this thought?? Should I let my self loose??? Have I put myself into permanent captivity of house and husband?? I hope to resolve these issues... lets see what all keeps appearing in my mind!!!! Have a good day!!!!

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