One of the Best Ways to Feel Good is to Wear Clothes that Fit
There are many things we can do to reduce that influence the outside world has on our insecurities
. One is to stop listening to them. Find ways to avoid the barrage of advertising that is out there. Another is to accept who we are and act accordingly. In the case of weight, accept that not all body types are the same and then find clothes that work with your body type. If you feel that you are overweight, the easiest way to reinforce that opinion in yourself and in others is to wear clothes that don't fit. If your pant size is 10, then the size that you should wear is size 10, because size 12 pants will be baggy and make you look overweight, and size 8 pants will highlight every excess pound also making you look overweight. The same goes for shirts and shoes. If you need wide shoes to be comfortable, then find a nice pair of wide shoes. Anything else that is too narrow will be uncomfortable and serve as a constant reminder to yourself that your feet are too wide. So while the truth is that your shoes are too small, the perception is that your feet are too big. When you stop trying to fit into someone else's shape and find what works well with your body you will feel better about yourself and be happier.
One of the Best Ways to Feel Good is to Wear Clothes that Fit