Unfortunately, for thousands of singles who are in the dating world are feeling that
dating is nothing more than a high stressful event and are asking themselves why continue? I think everyone will at a minimum agree that dating is complicated and can increase your stress levels trying to find a successful long term relationship but at the end of the day you need to remain focused on your relationships goals and keep your thoughts positive.
It is important to keep things in perspective about your first date that it is not your last chance at finding your match essentially remind yourself that there is no true deadline to finding the right person for you and if this first date works out then fine and if it does not then have the attitude youre going to move on. Many times single women and men struggle to keep focused on their goals and they let to much ride on that one single night with that first date and are not looking at the overall big picture and this causes singles to turn the first date into panic mode which is totally unnecessary!
Here are some thoughts to keep in mind about the first date:
1.With the first date you have nothing to prove to your partner- Think of the first date as an opportunity to socialize with another person and to enjoy their company, conversations and share some laughs together, turning the first date into a relaxing fun atmosphere will help you learn things about each other and youll find that the date and the conversations will flow smoothly without the undue added pressure you put on yourself.
2.Ultimately, with the first date you have nothing to lose- By letting your mind play games with you and letting yourself believe the first date is more important than it truly is. Remember, that if the first date does not go well then taking the Who Cares attitude will help you to move forward and that life goes on.
3.Hold no regrets- Dont regret that you went on the date but rather keep looking forward to future relationship opportunities. You never know, your next date could be the match you having been looking for. If you dont continue dating, youll never find your perfect match. Good Luck and Happy Online Dating to All Singles!