Online Dating Technique: Take Her On a Mini-Vacation — It's Free!
Online Dating Technique: Take Her On a Mini-Vacation It's Free!
When it comes to online dating, you, as men, make three huge mistakes:
You bore.
You brag.
You beg.
But here, of all places, you don't have to beg: women go online TO MEET YOU! They WANT YOU.
Online Dating is UNLIKE bars and clubs.
They go to bars because they're bored, or their boyfriends are out of town, or they want attention or in the case of one lover of mine just to f*&k with guys for fun (she told a Lakers fan her nipples were painted gold and purple and left him standing there, speechless).
By contrast, women go online with a SPECIFIC NEED and a DESIRE.
They WANT you.
However, you write profiles or send letters that BEG for approval or attention rather than draw out theirs
I've been creating a list of techniques that help you flip the power equation back into your favor so you never appear the beggar.
Here's one
THE MINI-VACATION
One of the most powerful ways to open her imagination and draw her to you is to create a "mini-vacation" for her in the mind.
I'll give you an example but remember the following is not intended for your male brain but her FEMALE brain. If I was trying to get your attention, I'd say something about a lounge chair, ice cold beer and nothing but free time.
But this mini-vacation is not for you. It's for her. You want to specific include triggers for female yearning
Here's one I wrote
**
"I love my life and I want to share it. I want to walk
hand-in-hand in Paris in a light, morning drizzle
just as the shopkeepers open their powder-blue
shutters and the smell of baking bread pours into
the streets"
**
To me, this is a compelling romantic image, and truth be told, I've had this moment, and I wouldn't mind having it again. I left out the part about a light film of snow, also blue in the morning light because you can overdo it, after all.
But for profile purposes it is replete with important triggers to awaken the yearning female heart
1. I start with fulfillment I am not BEGGING or NEEDING someone I already "love my life"
2. I put us "hand-in-hand" already. We're already there! I painted her into my picure, wrote her into my script. Two seconds ago, she was alone in her cold bed, staring at her computer. Now she has a warm hand in hers, strolling the streets of Paris.
3. I create a scene with SPECIFIC details the light drizzle (not "rain"), the "powder blue shutters" not "doors," and of course that good old smell of baking bread which every real estate agent knows is the hearthy aroma of home and safety.
Do you know how many emails I got from this paragraph alone? "I want to go to Paris" "I can almost smell the bread!" "I love
Paris too and want to go back" and of course the usual, "you are an amazing writer" emails.
You can do this, too.
You must:
1. Be already happy and the leader of your life. You are inviting her into a better life.
2. Paint her into the picture with you.
3. Use specific, sensory imagery the more concrete, the better. Stay away from abstract terms like "beautiful" and tend more toward powder blues and bread aromas.
This isn't hard.
You just have to do it.
Learn how you can here: www.DeepAttractionOnline.com
- Ton Ami, Adam
p.s. have you painted a scene and had women respond? Drop your wisdom in the COMMENTS section below and share the wealth!
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