Picking Up Women 101
Picking Up Women 101
Picking Up Women 101
Let me get one thing straight with you. I'm not some mainstream softy dating author that writes politically correct vague advice that sounds good. No, in fact I have I met, worked with and gone out "picking up" with the best underground gurus in the world.
I have spent over a decade trying out every method in the world, being proficient in it and even teaching it with the best. Yes, even those guys you see on TV with reality show. I have however come back from the mountain to deliver a shocking secret to you.
You see... Nothing actually works when it comes to picking up women. By this, I mean, everything works exactly the same. To cut the story short, I'll just head to facts immediatelly. Even the best of the best gurus in the world, only get 2% of the women they try to pick up. No, this is not a typo.
Now, most of these guys focus on completely random women and cold pick ups of women they've never met before that day. Percentages are much better in say social circles or where the woman invited your approach. In those situations even a dweeb might succeed 50% of the time.
Here is the point though... There is no magical secret that allows you to make women want you. There is no method or technique to picking up women. Its always going to be a numbers game. You will not get every woman you attempt to. The reason I am telling you this is to cut you the many years in chasing for the magical results that you can't even accomplish.
What I will offer here is the simplest, easiest way to picking up women in a realistic manner that works efficiently, simply and effortlessly.
1) Focus on being around attractive women more often. This means not just going out more, but also building a lifestyle where you're part of activites that include many attractive women, and little male competition. This includes things like dance classes, yoga classes, volunteer groups etc...
2) Focus on being the guy (or group of guys) that stands out the most. If you're in a club, you want to be the most fun guys that are having the most fun in that club. This increases the amount of women who notice you, and want to be picked up by you. Me personally I've gotten to the point where in a club, at least a dozen hot women either stare me down, or come dance off of me. Grinding and rubbing off of me.
3) Maximize your attractivness using the 90/10 rule. What most guys do is pick one feature of being attractive and get obsessed with it. For example they become bodybuilders and pretty much make it their second dayjob. Here's the trick, you actually can get 90% of the results in any sphere with just 10% of the effort. If you're working on your physique, sure, looking like a fitness cover model helps, but you get 90% of the same results by just simply being more fit than average. Just make sure your shoulders are wider than your belly, and your biceps wider than your forearms.
Its much better to have an "ok fit body", "better than average finances", "be an ok dancer" and "an ok photographer", than just have an ideal body or be rich (but have no other traits developed). Again, just take up a bunch of traits, and only develop them to ok levels, and you will get 90% of the result that you would by getting to master levels.
You don't have to join a dance class and become the best dancer in town and know as much as the instructor. Just knowing some basic dance moves, gets you 90% of the results that you would if you were an extraordinary dancer, because most guys don't know anything! So its better to go to the gym, go to dance classes, take up yoga... And get good at all of these, then get obsessed with just one and be one dimensional.
4) Once you have become more attractve, then next focus on being social. I know it sounds counterintutive, but the best way to fail at picking up women is to try and pick up women. Just focus on going out, being social, meeting tons of different women and then seizing opportunities when they arise.
Its much simpler, easier and effortles than the PUA method of "sarging" 100 women to pick up 2 of them. In this approach, you talk to everyone, and when women show interest, you make use of it. You actually get the same result, but with much less effort.
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