Positive Parenting Skills for Raising Cooperative, Confident, and Compassionate Children (free download)

Positive Parenting Skills for Raising Cooperative

, Confident, and Compassionate Children (free download)

Men Are From Mars, Women Are FromVenus And Children Are From Heaven:

Positive Parenting Skills for RaisingCooperative, Confident, and CompassionateChildren by John Gray

Sometimes, parents need to pause for a moment and think about their own actions. It's not enough to understand what your child is thinking, and their motives for behaviour. You also need to shine that same spotlight on yourself, on your thoughts and your own motives.

Parents need to be aware of their child's brain development at each stage. Up to 9 years old, a child has not yet developed the capacity for logical thinking. Therefore, to focus on a child's mistake and get upset about it, gives the message that the child is bad. If you focus on negative behavior and put a lot of energy on that, the child will tend to repeat it. What you put your energy on is what motivates a child. And, what pictures you put in your child's mind is what they follow.If you say, 'don't knock the vase over,' you're putting a picture in the child's mind of that, and they will do it. If you say, 'let's be nice to the vase,' they will have that picture. Say, 'biting hurts Mommy, let's kiss Mommy's arm. Be nice. Do this.' Any kind of logical concept is not received by the child. Parents think their children are logical because children can imitate logic but they don't yet have the brain capacity for that. If they spill juice on the floor, the child gets the message, 'I'm bad." Don't be upset at all, just say, 'let's clean it up' and clean it up with them. Then say, ' in the future, be careful.'

Dr.Gray has discovered 5 techniques from soft to tough, which when used, allow parents to let go of punishments. These are the 5 skills of positive parenting that when applied, free you from the need to punish your children. The world is different today, children are different, old techniques are working less and less. Parents are frustrated because the punishments aren't working. I haven't read any book that explains how to raise cooperative children that doesn't require some kind of punishment! And, in this book, communication skills are so effective, punishment is never required.

It's amazing how easy it is to put this into practice and you will forget many of the things again and again. Anything that you learn takes repetition hundreds of times before becoming automatic. Hitting a ball with a bat takes several hundred runs before you know how to do it ... becoming a reflex. Repetition helps us to learn quickly. However, this is simple once you start practicing it. In raising children, you get to repeat it over and over .. they're basic skills. What makes it work is that your children will respond right away .. you see that it works. When things aren't working, you think, 'Oh, I've got to go back to the book or tapes and see what isn't working.' This is a much healthier attitude than saying, 'Things aren't working, now I'll punish my kids.' With some practice, it becomes automatic. Parenting is not easy. Just with these principles parenting is much easier, but still a challenging job, especially if both parents are working. Raising a child is very challenging! The more skills you have, the easier it becomes. The result is much better.

Let's face it, if your day is filled with back talk, tantrums, not listening, whining, sibling rivalry, bedtime battlesit's just not a good day. But imagine your life when misbehaviors are few and far between and when they do occur, you know exactly what to doand it works! Wouldn't that make your life better?

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