Psychological Tricks To Play On Your Ex - If You Want Your Ex Back
Everybody knows that the period of time after a break-up is the most vulnerable time
. You're doubting yourself, you're readjusting to a new life solo, and maybe you're dealing with custody issues or property division on top of that. Even if you're not at all unhappy about the split, you're still off-balance and you will be for some time. It can't be helped. Which means that it's a particularly good advantage for psychological tricks to play on your ex.These work both ways. Sometimes you might be doing things with the goal of getting back together. Or you could just be out to play with their head a little. Maybe even get the upper hand in case there's a nasty legal case or two between you. Perhaps extricate yourself from an awkward situation or two. Hey, you probably have a couple more twisted little reasons for being here, so we'll just stop trying to explain for you.
Strategy one is to be mysterious. The best out of the psychological tricks to play on your ex is the one they play on themselves. You don't have to guide their thoughts so much as leave many conclusions for them to draw. Start a strange class in a field you've never shown interest in, make a lot of trips to one far-off place, start hanging out in some exotic subculture. If your ex asks what the heck is up with that, just go, "Well, guess you never noticed before."
Switch emotional states. If you were icy and distant, suddenly be warm and nurturing. If you were needy and clingy, suddenly be aloof and stoic. This works great for the ex who is trying to manipulate you. Try your best to be a good actor and send signals that completely do not make sense. You'll jam their gears because they have no way of knowing if what they're doing has the desired effect on you or not.
Let things intended for you "accidentally" land with your ex instead. Your new date calls your ex's home, oops, wrong number. Your ex finds a racy lingerie catalog in the mail addressed to you - whoops, forgot the change of address. Or swinger's magazines! Your ex will not resist flipping through them, and now they have pictures in their head of you in leather and studs in some dungeon getting your freak on with some friends you made at the Fulsom Street Fair.
If you've been able to keep this up and re-establish a friendship with your ex, don't be surprise that your ex may want to get back with you again. It is very likely that you won't even have to make the first move and find yourself being pursued. The most ideal way to get your ex back is to have them wanting you back.
by: Tristan T