Rekindle The Flame Of Romance To Save Your Relationship
Are the flames of your love just glowing embers of their former brilliance
? If you can keep those passionate flames alive there would never be the danger of a relationship breakdown. You can save your relationship simply by keeping the romance burning.
Many times, romance starts to diminish in relationships. Couples no longer feel the burning love and they would start to feel that their relationships are dull. Many times, romance is gradually lost in a relationship and many people are unconscious of it. You need to do a quick check now to see if your relationship is still filled with romance.
Cast your mind back to the early days of your relationship. Can you still remember the dress and shirt which your partner and you wore? Still remember where both of you went on your first date?
Remember the aching uncertainty and the joy when your partner said yes.Remember all the effort that you put into your appearance and the thoughtfulness behind your date planning. Hear again the wonderful words of kindness and compliments that you and your partner shared.
It sounds simple but romance is all you need to give the kiss of life to your struggling relationship. Revive the affection and restore the elation that can only be felt during the honeymoon period.
What does romance mean to you? When you know this you have taken the first step to recapturing it. Romance is lots of different things and actions and is different for every individual.
For some, it is the thoughtfully wrapped gift. For others, it is the memorable experience of a stolen weekend. So what exactly is romance? It can be explained as the consideration for your partner's values.
If you need inspiration, simply follow these steps to get started:
1. Think about those things or experiences that your partner treasures and that you can deliver. You have done them at least once before, so you can save your relationship by reprising those romantic things that were so great the first time around.
2. Write your recollections and ideas down. Make a romance to-do list and a plan for recapturing the passion.
3. Put your plan into action and open up the lines of communication. You will be able to save your relationship with empathic listening and gentle romantic talking.
See again the shy smiles and the longing glances. Experience the feeling of butterflies in stomach, excitement of the first kiss and heart-felt moments of loving hugs. You can save your relationship by inducing some level of romance into it.