Relationship Advice For Women - Are You Sabotaging Your Own Happiness?

No one would really consciously sabotage their own happiness

, would they? Yet, subconsciously, women do this to themselves all of the time. One of the ways in which they do this is, they constantly seem to find themselves attracted to a guy they know is not good for them, and they continue to see him anyway. If you have ever found yourself doing this in the past or even in the present, then you may want to know what you can do so that you don't keep that pattern up.

Some women don't even realize that this is what they are doing until they are already in the process of doing it to themselves and some never identify the fact that they are doing this and they just keep getting burned by bad relationships and they don't know why.

Here are some signs that you may be sabotaging your own happiness when it comes to relationships:

1) You know that the guy you are attracted to already has a woman in his life, yet you continue to pursue him anyway.

Maybe he pursues you, that part doesn't really matter. What matters is the fact that you know what kind of guy he is already just by the fact that he already has a woman in his life. You know that you are not going to be able to have a happy and healthy relationship with him and yet, you keep going back to him. If you are doing this, then you can definitely say that you are the one who is sabotaging your own happiness because there are plenty of good men out there that are not running around behind some other woman's back.

2) You are more attracted to men with drama attached to them as opposed to men without the drama.

I know that I have some friends like this. Every man that they meet that seems to have his life completely together, they just don't seem to want to be bothered with him at all. Yet, the moment that they meet a guy who has a lot of drama that comes along with him, that is the guy that they want. This is another situation where you already know that you are probably not going to find happiness with this man, and yet, you go for it anyway. If you do that, then you really only have yourself to blame in the end.

3) You ignore all of the warning signs because you think that you can "fix" him.

Oh my, do a lot of women make this mistake. You see a guy that you know just isn't relationship material and yet, there is this part of you that tells yourself that you can turn him into relationship material. Is it any surprise when you find out that you really cannot and you just end up getting hurt in the process? You have to pay attention to that feeling that you get when you know that he is not the type to have a meaningful relationship if you want to be happy.

by: Alexandra Scott

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