Relationship Advice for Women Over 40: Attracting the Right Man
Relationship Advice for Women Over 40: Attracting the Right Man
Are you not meeting the right man? You always seem to attract the wrong man. The best thing to do is figure out your own unique seduction style to see what kind of man you really are attracting.
Every woman has her own unique seduction style, and most men respond to those styles differently. Not all men are attracted to the same styles. Some men are turned off by a woman who makes the first move, while others find such directness exciting. Some men find good conversation more stimulating than surface beauty, while other men will admit that looks are the first thing to catch their eye.
It took me a long time to figure out what my own seduction style was. I had to really know what I wanted from a man. If I really wanted a man to be in love with the real me I knew that I couldn't play games. Game playing was not going to get me the man that I would ultimately be happy with. Over the years I have learned that focusing on my own ability to love was far more important than focusing outward on the process of attraction. The more I grew in love the more irresistibly attractive I became.
It is time to ask yourself what is it that you want? You can play games and get all of the male attention you want from guys who are into the thrill of the chase. Or you can be genuine, and live in the moment and attract the kind of man whose strength and love equals your own. When you play games you are no longer attracting the kind of man who would willingly fall in love with the real you.
Like attracts like-that is exactly what happens. We attract people like ourselves. Women who act like trophies attract men who seek conquests, while women who act loving attract men who want to love. If your goal is to have true love then being real is the only way to go. I know how hard it can be, to let someone see the "Real" you. Even though putting yourself out there and being vulnerable to rejection is scary, I believe it is the only way to find the true love that you have been searching for.