Relationship Help: 5 Tips From Successful Couples
When it comes to building a healthy marriage / Relationship
, one of the best resources is to hear from Couples Who Have Been for Many Years together and, MOST importantly, would do it all over again with the Same Person. In the marriage / Relationship Enrichment workshops I run, there are Often this very Couples Who Meet Criterion.Here are some of the important marriage / Relationship Advice
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Couples Have These tips shared:
1. its not just about communication.
Of course Effective communication is important, But Sometimes These Couples realize That They is not going to see eye to eye and at Some Point They Just Have to let go of an issue.
As one woman shared, "It's just a fact of life that two opinionated people won't always agree. You really have to develop a strong backbone and realize this. Otherwise you're going to keep on talking about the same issue over and over again until you're blue in the face. Honestly, thats not communication, its futility. "
2. You need to get a life.
More specifically, you need to Develop and aspect of your life outside the marriage / Relationship That Does not necessarily include your mate. This is about life-balance, and it Allows for a richer life and ultimately to more Fulfilling relationship. Many of These Couples Have careers, including Interests, or That They enjoy hobbies and find Meaningful on Their Own.
This Takes pressure off the relationship (and Each Other) to Meet all of your needs (it's unrealistic to expect the Relationship That Can Meet or your partner all your needs ... that's an impossibility), and Developing a Meaningful Interest of your own dog lead to Deeper Levels of sharing yourself Broadening Since you'll be in the process.
3. Connecting Create routines.
Couples too many end up living parallel lives If They Do Not take the time and effort "to nurture Their marriage / relationship. But this effort "does not have to feel like Unpleasant work! Successful Couples Engage in Activities That Feed Their connection together.
Here Are some examples Couples That Have shared (These Are Activities done together): walking or hiking, cooking, Taking classes together, Attending theater or musical events, going for drives, Participating in a book group, or Having a date night movie, playing sports (bowling, softball, pool ... or learn a new sport together) ... the list is endless.
4. Do not sweat the small stuff take the serious stuff But Seriously?
This Is Easier Said than Done But it CAN make a big difference in your relationship. A problem raised when you feel Something Is not a big deal But your spouse / partner Feels it's really important.
Rule of thumb: If your mate believes something is a big deal, start by validating his / her experience Minimizing Rather than it (even if you do not feel it's important). This will allow your mate to feel loved, Understood, and close to you. It's always Easier Not to sweat the small stuff when you're feeling connected to Each Other. 5. Successful Couples Fall in Love with Each Other More Than eleven.
5. Successful Couples Fall in Love with Each Other More Than eleven.
These Couples describes falling in love with Each Other More Than Once (and in Different Ways) over the course of their marriage / relationship. Are There Naturally Occurring Relationship lulls intermixed with Periods of Greater connection (emotional and physical intimacy) and intensity?
Feelings change, love intensifier and WANs - over the lifetime of a marriage Couples fall in and out of love with Each Other Again and again.
Think of your Relationship as a journey - a journey that will involve highs and lows, success and disappointment, discovery and rediscovery. Along this journey, Successful Couples hold onto the Reasons They Fell in love in the first place and they find new Deepen Their Existing Reasons to love.
by: TwertBrown