Relationship Theory 101 - How To Save Your Relationship

Most relationships, no matter what happens, can be saved

. There are a few relationships that shouldnt be saved, like those that are abusive or really miserable. But most others have the potential to be fixed. That should be lesson number in any relationships 101 class.

The problem is, people give up too soon. Theyre angry, hurt, upset and it just seems easiest to get out of the circumstance that made them that way. Its all too easy to concentrate only on whats happening now, and not the past.

If the relationship was good at one point, and most were or no one would have stayed in it very long, then it really can be that way again. But people have to look past the anger and the problems that are happening now, and remember those good times.

To cause further problems, often one person is ready to work hard at saving the relationship. But the other person wont look past the bad to remember the good. That person is ready to toss it all away. And can only person save a relationship?

Sometimes one person can do it, but its not easy. Its hard to stay positive and hopeful when your boyfriend of girlfriend doesnt act or feel the same. It can start to feel like youre fighting a losing battle.

Keep fighting the battle, because even if the relationship doesnt heal, it will make you a better person. Thats because the things youll do to try to save the relationship are basically good for you, and good for the other person, too.

Its very important to remember the way you behaved with the relationship was new and going strong. Compare that to how you behave with that person now. And turn things around by acting the way you used to, and doing the things you used to.

Attempt to be polite again just as you were in the beginning. Be thoughtful and be a good friend to the person whenever you can, even if youre not going to get anything out of it. Dont beg them to come back, tell them they need to come back, or threaten what will happen if they dont come back.

When faced with someone acting like that, would you want to be with that person again? Tell yourself that youll survive no matter what happens, but do your very best to show them the person they want to be with again.

by: Dennis Leese

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