Save My Marriage - A Shrink Can't Help You, But A Good Book Can

If you're separated, but completely determined to save your marriage

, you may be in the marketplace books on relationships. But how do you choose the best books on relationships among the many offerings out there?

In this article, I will show you how to choose the best books on relationships. And the answer will surprise you. Read on...

First, don't be fooled by fancy letters after a author's name. There are many people who find school to be a convenient escape from real life. Instead of engaging with people, they spend their time in the classroom and library. As a result, they end up with a lot of letters after their names when they hit age 35. They use their degrees to indicate that they have "expert knowledge" of a situation. But does expert knowledge translate into real world experience?

Instead, you should look for books on relationships by people who have been through the same thing you're going through right now. They've either put a bad relationship back together themselves or they have helped countless friends do the same. And I don't mean 'friends' who are really 'patients' or 'clients'.

Next, you want to find books that don't boil down to "put the relationship aside for 30 days and work on yourself during that period." This is all most "save your relationship" or "get your ex back" reports say. Many of the ebooks on the market turn that concept into 50 page documents. These are just processed rubbish and don't deserve your attention - or your money.

Instead, you should look for a book that will give you new information; information that will actually make a difference on a day to day basis.

For example, will the book tell you what women want the most? Will it show you, in an easy to follow program, exactly how to give it to her? Will the book show you how to recover from an affair? Will it give you specific techniques to get relief from your pain?

Finally, look at who is recommending the book. Were the testimonials written by the author themselves? Were they written by the author's brother and second cousin?

You should attempt to find some books that come recommended by a wide variety of people, in various situations, from all walks of life. If it looks like both a computer technician from Hong Kong and a every day girl from Auckland have used the book, then the odds are good it will work for you.

There are many books on relationships on the market. Unfortunately, most of them are drivel because they weren't written by someone who's actually been there themselves. As a result, they have generic advice that could be best summed up in a paragraph or two.

by: Jo Scarff

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