Save Your Marriage - Infidelity Doesnt Have To Mean The End

Of all the things that can tear apart a marriage

, infidelity is one of the biggest reasons. Marriage is supposed to be about love, honesty and respect, and extramarital affairs are a betrayal of things that marriage stands for Marriage is supposed to be about a strong bond between two people that is intended to last a lifetime, and once that bond or promise is broken, it is extremely difficult to overcome

In a marriage, infidelity isn't just what happens when somebody begins a physical relationship outside of the marriage. Infidelity can also be emotional, when one of the partners in a marriage begins to share their life with someone outside the marriage.

This is referred to as emotional infidelity, and it has become an even more serious problem in the last few decades. One of the reasons for this is because workplaces, one of our prime social engagements in modern times, have become significantly more mixed.

In addition to that it is even easier to communicate with people on the sly. Email and instant messaging and texting have all made it easier to bond with people that you shouldn't be bonding with. While this isn't the cause of emotional infidelity, it is a factor.

At the same time, physical infidelity has also become easier. We spend more time apart than we once did, and it is not at all uncommon to spend the majority of time at work, which gives us a very handy excuse when we make the decision to cheat in our marriage. Infidelity is a choice, make no mistake about that.

But the thing to remember is that all of these things are excuses and opportunities, not reasons. Changing the excuses won't change the marriage, won't solve anything. But that doesn't mean that you can't overcome cheating in marriage. Infidelity is a big problem, but it is not an impossible one.

The very first thing you need to do is to figure out what went awry in your marriage. Infidelity isn't something that happens in a vacuum; there is always a reason when things like that happen. Something has broken in your relationship and it needs to be resolved in order to get past the cheating.

Once you've found out why and began work on it, you need to reestablish the trust in the marriage. Infidelity destroys trust, and it's going to be difficult to repair what was been broken. You need to work on rebuilding the trust. Don't expect it to happen right away, and don't expect it to be easy.

Following these few steps can actually increase your chances of saving your marriage Although infidelity is terrible and inexscusable, most relationships can be fixed if both partners have the same desire and goal You just need to be willing to find the guidance and the assistance you need to repair your relationship.

by: Dennis Leese

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