Has a breakup just happened to you? Not wanted it to happen
? Wondering what the secrets are to getting your ex to want you back? This can be done. A plan will be needed in order to get your ex to want you back.
Emotions need to be dealt with before you can begin to get your ex to want you back. Reconciliation chances will be slim if you cannot face the initial breakup. Not accepting it means making very dumb mistakes. Your feelings have to be examined and understood as to why you want to get back together with your ex.
It is important to be mature in your behavior. When you are mature, you are telling everyone that you can handle what life has thrown you. Avoid being belligerent. They should understand your actions to say that you are not glad to be away from them but instead strong enough to survive. They will appreciate your ability to stand on your own. Your ex does not want someone in their life who is dependent on them and whiny. Such actions will make a relationship short-lived.
Never communicate with your ex on purpose. No cards should be sent to your ex. No text should go from your phone to his/hers. Mooning over your ex or following them at a social event should be avoided. Just stay polite without going overboard. Never approach your ex at a gathering. Your ex should be given the chance to come to you first. You are the one in control then. It could be that the breakup is being reconsidered. The first move should not be done by you, but by your ex.
Always have an active social life. Friends are fun to hang out with. There is no reason to purposely avoid places that you went as a couple to. You don't have to have your ex along to enjoy the places. Your ex could feel a bit of jealousy at your happiness. Getting your ex to want you back could be so simple as just being happy and moving on with your life.