It is normal for any relationship to go through storms
. At one point you will feel you're about to explode and end the relationship but then the next thing you'll know you're thinking of getting your ex back and compromise. There are several ways you need to know if you surely want to get your ex back.
1. You need to look good. Be sure that you will look more attractive from the last time your ex-partner saw you. Change your way of dressing up, be sure you are in great shape and make sure you look stunning.
2. Be polite and friendly when you get to see your ex. Don't beg for them to take you back. They will end up not liking you more.
3. Be your ex's confidante, make sure you are willing to listen to his/her problems but do not be too close or that would just annoy your ex. 4. Make him or her see you that your life's doing just fine even without him/her. Be independent and do the things you weren't able to do back then.
5. During parties, make yourself look very available and act like one too. Do not be afraid that other single people would approach. This could possibly make your ex feel insecure and it would make them feel threatened and perhaps get that desire of wanting you back.
6. If you are being asked by your common friends, do not talk bad things about your former partner as this would just worsen the situation. Instead, talk about positive things and if ever he gets to know this, he/she would feel like you still have such respect for him/her.
7. Remember not to belittle your ex's point-of-views. Do not be stuck with your past relationship.
8. Try to wear clothes you used to wear when you still had such relationship. It would make them think of the memories you once shared and might want to have you back again.
9. Find new hobbies or interests. This will keep your ex get busy. 10. Always try to think positive. Positivity will make your ex that you no longer dwell on the break-up and have moved on.
There is really no perfect and guaranteed steps as to how one could get your ex back but there is also no reason for you not to try these steps. Slowly but surely, as the saying goes, there is really no harm in trying.
