Signs Of Infidelity In Men- 4 Signs To Watch Out For
Conflicts and arguments in marriage are inevitable
. But some spouses go way overboard and cheat on their partners. Some are very subtle about it, and it is difficult to ascertain if he is in fact cheating because he can be real sly and careful not to get caught.
But there are telltale signs that will tell you if your spouse is sneaking behind your back. Most of these signs rarely come by, and so you must hone your sixth sense to recognize them.
One thing though: Never accuse your partner with anything unless you have built a strong case with enough evidence. Doing so might put your marriage in double jeopardy.
Catching a cheating spouse isnt easy. But these signs will help you smell an affair from a mile away:
Sign #1: He is more attentive to you.
Dont get me wrong, spouses are meant to be more caring and attentive to their partners. But if he isnt always like this, and you notice some unnatural change in his behavior, it could mean hes guilty of something and hes trying to make up for it.
Sign #2: He tries to find fault in everything that you do.
This is a defense mechanism, a counter measure, if you will. Because of guilt eating up the core of him, he will attempt to put you in a bad light just so he can justify his actions. It is basic human nature to put blame on someone else, and your partner is not above this tendency.
He will start to nitpick your cooking skills, for example, and then he will move on to heavier stuff like criticizing the way you dress or deal with his friends. When he has enough leverage, he will drop the bomb, and it wont be as serious because he had successfully put part of the blame on you.
Sign #3: He has lost interest in activities at home.
Did he used to mow the lawn and tend the garden in the front yard but now he seems to have not time for it anymore? Does he neglect house repairs that he used to enjoy doing during the weekends? What about the children, does he still help them with their homework?
If you notice a sudden loss of interest in these daily affairs at home, then you better brace yourself for some looming tragedy. You may be sharing his attention with someone else.
Sign #4: He has lost interest in having sex with you.
Although its common for couples to lose their raging hormones along the way, sometimes this could also mean that your partner may be getting it elsewhere. If you havent slept with him for about a month now, its time for a reality check. He may be having an affair under your nose.
These are only few of the many signs of marital infidelity. Before you confront your spouse about it, it is best to seek the help of a marriage counselor so you will be properly guided on how to best deal with the situation. Remember that no marriage is beyond repair as long as long as you are committed to fixing it.
by: Dale L. McClure
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