Spontaneity is the most important aspect at the start of a relationship, keep things exciting by keeping her on her toes. If you never let her settle she'll feel like the whole thing is a big adventure that allows her to see your fun and most notably sensitive side. She'll think you are putting in the extra effort that she deserves. Spontaneity comes in many forms one of the best ways to demonstrate you are a spontaneous person is by planning a series of original and creative first dates. Maybe you live by the ocean and you fancy a short trip out to sea by renting a boat that's definitely something that she would have not done on a first date before.
As a record amount of relationships are now breaking up after the 12 to 18 month stage. It is now appearing the 'seven year itch' has turned into the seventeen month itch and an increasing amount of relationships are falling down due to a lack of excitement and spontaneity.
So start as you mean to go on, if you want to make it something special then get in there, get your thinking cap on and start to be spontaneous. Maybe sending her flowers every now and then out of the blue will keep the relationship burning over and over. Always whisk her away for days out and a change of scenery. If you change the pace of the relationship then it's an easy way to keep it fresh and exciting. The second and third dates are crucial; you've already had the initial ice breaker of the first date. You have asked each other the same old questions, but the second and third date is really where you can make your mark. This is where she really finds out what type of person you are, and the way you treat a woman in your life. Arrive in style, then maybe keep things a little bit mysterious and take her out for a nice romantic meal. But this time make sure there is live music and dancing, literally sweep her off her feet and provide her with a night she will never forget. The third date can be used to further enhance your credentials and make sure you keep things exciting. I can't tell you every move so you need to think of the third date yourself, but keep the spark going and maybe an adrenaline rush would not go a miss.