Standing Up To The Angry Husband

Standing Up To The Angry Husband

Standing Up To The Angry Husband

Anger has a very draining affect not only on the individual caught up in the rage but for those that are exposed to it. Often the wife of an angry husband soon runs out of energy to be able to deal with these angry outbursts on a constant basis.

Many times a wife with an angry spouse will in the beginning react back with retaliatory rage. Then after a period of time she seems to just resolve herself to the fact that nothing is ever going to change. Finally she reaches that third stage where she either decides that she cannot stay with a man that is suffering from a anger management problem any longer, even though she still loves him. Or she will just decide to accept the fact that her husband is a hot head and place herself in a position of learning to cope with it. From that point on she basically lives in a most unhappy atmosphere.

The wife that learns to stand up to her angry husband has the chance to turn things around though. By standing up that doesn't meant meeting him on the same anger management level that he is at. What it means is taking control of the angry outburst at the time, but going one step further and following it through.

Ironically because an anger is so emotionally draining on everyone that is privy to it, once the heat of the moment is past everyone just wants to forget about it. They don't even want to think of the next bout of anger that is sure to come.

The wife of an angry husband has to develop the skills to first remain stable and calm during the angry outburst. Respond if necessary but not allow herself to become involved in a screaming match. Chances are the individual suffering with the anger management problem will calm down much faster.

Here is where the wife needs to stand up to her angry husband. Once he has calmed down the wife needs to discuss with him that he has an anger problem and that they can work this out together. He may not listen the first time, or the second, but eventually he will begin to realize that he does have a anger problem. Most likely deep down inside he knows this but doesn't want to face it.

This type of anger management approach is effective for the wife who is dealing with a husband who has various levels of anger management issues. It is not for the wife who fears physical abuse from her husband. In these cases the wife must seek professional help and support.

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