State of Sexual Frustration and Fear, how you Deal It
There is no doubt that today in our society, personal dissatisfaction with sex - a common phenomenon
. Half of all couples in one form or another are suffering from troubles related to lack of interest and boredom to this sexual dysfunction. Much of the adults who are not married, also complain about this: they can not find a good partner, they feel that sex is more pressing, not relax, and do not enjoy their own erotic response somehow inhibited or upset. Even teenagers - if they are at the peak of his sexual appetite, often complain that the sexual issues of their concern. The trouble is that this happens rarely, because most people react to sexual problems in their lives that only more deeply immersed in the state of sexual frustration and fear.Increase your sexual satisfaction- It is one thing to see the problem and quite another - to solve it. List of specific proposals to people who feel that their sexual life is very satisfied them that it is not as full as it could be. These proposals not encompassing and can not substitute for sex therapy in cases where problems are complex and the self they are not solved, proposals are numbered only for convenience, the serial number does not mean the degree of importance or effectiveness.
Worth spending time on something to think of sexual nature- One of the problems that people are often about sex is that they seem to dissociate himself him apart from the other life. If people spend some time thinking about their own sexuality in its many changes, it would be better able to understand the thing: while sex is only submitted to a discrete action, such as, for example, set in tennis, it will be a fragment of life, its isolation, rather than an part that creates and this life, and relationships in it. Furthermore, thinking of her to the sexual side, people really learn to understand their own sexuality as characterized by its quality, and not consider it simply a momentum or arises from time to time demand.
Worried about sensual and sexual satisfaction- It does not want people to think that someone else to include his and give him experience the joy sexual fit, in fact, every man to be responsible for their own eroticism. Men seem to be easier to perceive this aspect of sex, and women slip into the culture prescribes the role of a passive creature, expecting that their partner knock them off their feet and, if it comes to sex, will lead and exempt them from other concerns, except to respond to commands. This notion of sex as something so that one person makes to another or several milder view that it is something that is done for the other, can lead to problems. Taking the same responsibility for the swap sensual and sexual needs, you really are giving your partner a great service; it is as if you say: You're quite expensive, so I will spare you from having to guess what I wanted, I right, and that can make me happy.
Talk about sex with their partner- The most astonished us in the sexual behavior of people - whether they secretly most of them when it comes to how to talk about sex with a lover. As if this somehow ruins sex, liquidates its spontaneity. Many times we watched a couple where one party had not the slightest idea what he wants the other, or what she likes in a sexual sense, or couples with kindness, conceived with good intentions, did not reach the goal because they were too intense, too fast, or too weak, too far - and all this could easily be corrected with a few words, struck them on time.
Instead, we propose to establish a mutual agreement, let's talk about sex, number of tips, starting with, for example, how to enhance sexual feelings, if a partner, despite their obvious utility, is not very apt to use different code words or symbols, like any send sexy messages.
State of Sexual Frustration and Fear, how you Deal It
By: Leena Kiri