Stop Blaming Other People For Your Actions

When tempers flare and emotions ride high it is very common to come across people who attach blame to the wrong people

. This might be a normal occurrence to some but there are others who might find it unfair and depressing. As people we must learn how to be accountable for our own actions otherwise we run the risk of assuming we are always right. For anyone to grow as a person they must learn how to stop blaming other people.

There are some people who can't face the tragedies of certain accidents and just prefer to pass on blame to undeserving people. Such people are irresponsible and don't know how to be honest enough to accept that they are the ones who are wrong. Taking responsibility for our own actions means bearing the full responsibility of the results of our actions.

Sometimes there is the occasional mistakes that carry with them stiff consequences. In such situations it is crucial for us to take responsibility for our mistakes because if we don't we can never learn from them. In part it is unfair for someone to accept responsibility for what someone else did because at the end of it all they are the ones that suffer the outcome of our wrong deeds.

In order to stop blaming other people we must assess situations correctly. Assessing situations incorrectly can lead to a wrong understanding of a problematic situation. But on the other hand if we assess situations in the right way we stand to see clearer and avoid the rather unfortunate circumstance of having to pass on blame to people who clearly don't deserve it. Take a pen and paper and write down everything that had something to do with a problem. If people other than yourself appear to be more blameworthy than you then it was their fault. But if a certain situation accords more blame on you then you must be responsible.

Another thing you can do in order to stop blaming others is asking for someone else's' opinion on a selected matter. In a lot of cases such people normally offer advice that is unbiased. Take the opinions of more than 5 independent people and decide on who is to blame.

As a last resort I suggest that you have truthful self talk. Being honest with you beats the advice of any outsider and it has a more gratifying feeling. Being honest with oneself is not exactly the easiest thing but it's the best; the answer normally lies in you.

by: Trevor Johnson..

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