Stop Premature Ejaculation and Enjoy Longer Lasting Sex
Stop Premature Ejaculation and Enjoy Longer Lasting Sex
Premature ejaculation is a huge problem for many men and as a result very often the cause of unsatisfactory sexual relations. It is important to find a solution to this problem in order to enjoy longer lasting, enjoyable sex.
In my younger years I was afraid of having full sex with women because of this problem and the feeling of inadequacy that resulted from coming too quickly. I would often get so excited that I would ejaculate before penetration, which was most embarrassing. If I managed to penetrate then I would shot off after just a couple of thrust so I was never really able to satisfy my partners in this way.
I almost gave up penetration sex and started to concentrate on oral sex. At least by using my mouth and tongue I was able to bring my partners to climax. Then I would penetrate and reach my own climax. The problem with oral sex was if my partner took my penis into her mouth while I was pleasing her I would inevitably ejaculate. So I had to do one-way oral sex until she climaxed
When I got married the same problem occurred so I had to find a solution. Oral sex was not really an option as my wife was not very keen on this. Masturbation was a help. I used to go off to the bathroom about half an hour before going to bed with my wife and masturbate. This was a small help and I managed to perform a little better.
I then read a book about masturbating on a more regular basis, at least once a day. The trick was to bring the erected penis up to the stage of almost ejaculating and then to stop all action and to allow the penis to go soft then to start stimulation all over again and repeat the method. This helps to teach one how to control and time the ejaculation. This has been of some help.
I have found, over the years, a number of other methods and aids in helping to overcome this problem. These are covered in my blog.