Stop Your Divorce Marriage Advice

Look, if you are getting a divorce and want to stop it

, then you first need to figure out why it isn't working. Why is your marriage failing. If you can figure this out, you then have a much better chance of fixing it and making it work.

The three causes for a marriage to end are usually these: marital drift, they just aren't into you anymore. That's one. The second is your spouse did something wrong, like cheated on you. The third is you did something wrong to your spouse, like cheating on them.

To stop your divorce, you really need to see why it is happening. What is the underlying reason? Then, once you've figured that out, you can then plan a strategy for repairing your marriage. Each major cause will require a different strategy or plan to stop your divorce.

Let's say you are getting a divorce because of relationship drift. Your spouse just isn't that into you anymore. You have drifted away from each other over the months or years. He or she isn't feeling the passion for you anymore and they want to leave. They say they have fallen out of love with you. What can you do?

You can repair their not being into you anymore if you use a strategy like this: First, ask them why they aren't that into you anymore. Ask them straight up. "What is the main reason you feel like you have lost your passion for me?" Ask probing questions. Get them to tell you!

Next, you have to see if you want to change or work on whatever their main reason is. If they lost passion for you because you gained a bunch of weight, do you want to diet? If it was something else, do you want to fix that?

If so, then you have a chance to stop your divorce. You need to start to change and then convince them that you will maintain that change. You need to take some action and show them, not just tell them. Get started on that diet or whatever!

Marital drift kills marriages day in and day out. There is more to this strategy and how to implement it, but it is one of the few ways you can stop your divorce when they have "fallen out of love" with you. You can get them to fall back in love, if you have a good plan and stick to it.

by: Joanie S Angel

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