5) Shut off all the electronic gizmos and talk to each other! This needs to be said
. Too many couples let themselves get into the habit of sitting in bed together with his and her laptops, or watching the TV all the time, or always being on the phone. Really, try this experiment, because it will change your relationship: Turn off everything in the house that makes noise. Make a game of it. You'll discover the radio behind the TV, and the fan and the MP3 player behind that, and then it's the air conditioning and then something behind that. Do it until you can hear your own heart beat. Now sit down together and just stare at each other and meditate. Now have a conversation, about anything, just let it wander around aimlessly all night. Wasn't that amazing?