Successful Dating - The Number One Reason Why Relationships Fail Early On

Successful dating eludes many successful women

. If you've experienced a string of dating failures early on in your relationships, maybe you are blaming men, or wondering where it is all going wrong, or perhaps you are starting to doubt whether any man could ever love you. There is one major problem which is responsible for the majority of dating failures early on. If you want to avoid the top mistake that many women make which will keep you from dating successfully, read on to find out how.

The number one reason for lack of dating success and why relationships fail early on is very common and easily avoidable. It is the mindset of the woman in the relationship, which leads to the manner in which she approaches dating.

If any of the following apply to you, then you probably need to adjust the way you approach dating if you want to be successful:

You don't seem to be able to get a relationship off the ground.

You don't like dating, you just want to get straight to the relationship.

You wonder why you have to play games in dating.

You just wish that you could meet a man who would make you feel happy and fulfilled.

You may find it easy enough to meet men but for some reason they don't seem to stick around. It is really quite common to have the feelings above, if you have been unsuccessful at dating, but there are underlying unconscious emotions playing out in this kind of mindset.

Generally if you have such feelings, you don't feel happy without a man in your life. This means that the minute you meet a man you feel attracted to, you throw yourself into a relationship with him. You don't stop to find out whether he would make a suitable partner for you. Bam! You're attracted! You're in a relationship! You're committed!

The problem here is that a man will not actually like finding himself in the middle of a committed relationship before he is ready. This is actually quite repugnant to him. Aside from this, your increased expectations will make him feel pressured and he will pull back so as not to contribute further to your relationship delusions. Sooner or later you will probably lose him.

A man will be much more attracted to you if he sees that you are checking him out to see if he is going to make a quality partner. Show him this by not throwing yourself into a relationship with him before you know him well. He will be much more inclined to treat you well if you value and respect yourself first. If he knows you won't tolerate his bad behaviour, he is much less likely to display it in front of you. Now if he is a man who is only out for a bit of fun, he will realise that you are looking for more and will leave, but at least you will find this out before you have given yourself away.

What do you need to do to turn your dating into successful dating? Become conscious of these patterns and adjust your mindset. Realise that dating is absolutely necessary to let a man show you whether he is good enough for you. Stop jumping into relationships before you know if he can meet your needs. Don't confuse attraction with love and hold back until you meet a man who can contribute to your happiness. It's not men! Your mindset is the number one reason why you fail at dating and early on in a relationship. Change your mind, learn what works and dating success will follow.

Successful Dating - The Number One Reason Why Relationships Fail Early On

By: Lucy O'Brien

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