Suddenly Dumped But Can You Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?
Youve been totally committed to each other for 3 years and everything was going great
then suddenly out of the blue you get dumped! What happened? When you were together she told you that you were the one. You were both completely loved up! Is there a chance of her coming back even though she totally ignores you?This is a quite common experience and made all the more painful when you think about the lies they told you when you were together. Although it may seem the break up came completely out of nowhere in reality it rarely happens that way.
Some of the reasons your ex is now ignoring could be 1.They are way ahead of you in the getting over the ex situation and think that ignoring you is the best way to help you get over the break up. 2.They are seeking some kind of revenge by playing a childish game. Women often like to hand out the silent treatment. But this can feel a hundred times worse after your break up. 3.Maybe they really DO need their own space and some time away from you to clear the air.
Whatever the reasons may be, how should you deal with an ex that appears to have lost all interest in you virtually over night?
Before you ask yourself "can I get my ex girlfriend back" you must firstly realise that this break up has been bubbling in the back of their mind for quite a while. And whatever reason they have used for breaking up is only to try to rationalize the break in the first place.
Secondly, you need to know that whatever this game is that they are playing is only temporary. Remember they are pretty much trying to gain something by ignoring you. Once they feel they have gained what it is that theyre after, the ignoring usually stops.
The unfortunate part is the fact that you cant keep contacting them in the hope that one day they will stop ignoring you, because this could take months!
So heres the Burning Question, In order to get your ex girlfriend back, what should your next move be AND when should you make it?
Well, one basic answer would be to just wait. But this could take several frustrating months. You could maybe look out for some subtle signs that your ex is starting to come around to you again.
The problem is, waiting really sucks and those subtle signs can often be totally misleading. And even if you ex has stopped ignoring you, how do you know what's best to do next? Taking the wrong steps could completely blow any chances of getting your ex back.
You need to learn:- How long you should wait before contacting your ex. What it is you should be doing in the meantime. What is the right way to make first contact successfully? What can be done if you've somehow managed to push your ex further away from you! And what at all costs you must NOT talk about when you first meet up again!
The hard fact is, get any of this wrong and you will blow any chance you have of making up. But by getting the right breakup advice the odds of getting back with your ex will be well and truly stacked in your favor!
by: Nik Martin