Surviving A Bad Date

Occasionally, a bad date happens to one person at a positive point in his or her life

. One ought to do some assessment before writing off the person for life. No sparks at all? Nervous to open any topic? Is he or he being rude? Here are some things that you can do. How to deal with a bad date or when you are the one who is about to make it bad?

1. In case you are feeling nervous opt for a date over coffee. You will have less time fidgeting due over nervousness since after finishing your coffee you can basically bid your date a speedy "ta-ta".

2. There is no excuse for a date that is obnoxious & rude. Walk away Renee.

3. You & your date are not on the same wavelength? Endure the date, maintain your composure & leave politely. If your date asks for an extension, say an after meal drink, you can always politely (again) say no.

4. In case you unintentionally insult your date, basically apologize then move on. If your insult is not that extreme, your date might forgive & forget.

5. Seldom provide entertainment at your expense. Humor is chilled, self-bashing is not. It is not worth it to make your self feel uncomfortable trying to impress your date.

How to move on?

6. Don't punish yourself for a date that went evil. Save it somewhere in your mind that is remote. Or better yet, commend yourself for being able to go through it. Learn from your mistakes.

7. Share the details with a mate. This way you can treat it more of a laughingstock than something that will haunt you for life.

8. Get occupied with other activities so you can forgive yourself & forget about the bad date. Exercising, eating something sweet or watching a film will make the bad vibes go away sooner than you expect.

9. Honesty & kindness are a lovely combination when it comes to turning down a bad date that would like a second round. Say something a bit blunt but peppered with some praise-- is that an oxymoron?

10. Now, in case you think that the person still deserves a second chance, by all means, give him or the second try. You can always laugh the bad date incident away when you are more comfortable with each other.

Daters should not spend too much time talking over the first call. You don't want to give your date the impression that you are too needy to talk to each other. Remember that if you got all the signs right, there are still a lot of time to talk about things.

by: Michael SeoVida Francis

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