Texting is one of the most powerful tools used for communication among all groups of people. When you know the right words they have the ability to get what you want at the right time. Texting is more prevalent in flirting and dating as well. There is no need to be overly witty or courteous; you simply have to send the right kind of message to know the response from the other person. Build up the attraction slowly and effortlessly and end up with a successful dating.
Tips for flirting and dating
1. Keep it short: Send short messages. Most of the cell phones allow you to type only about 160 characters per message. So you will be forced to write small messages. Whatever, try to write only one or two sentences so that it does not become boring.
2. Be playful and witty: When you are texting, you need to be careful about two things. First, it has to be playful and make the other person laugh. Tell about things you came across that were funny. But ensure that you do not hurt her/him in any instance. Sometimes, he/she may also tease you back. In this you can have some good time together laughing and exchanging witty comments.
3. Supplement your real life: Some people flirt only through texting. This is not desirable because this will only show that you are a weak person. Your text messages should actually be a supplement to your real life flirting with the person. Only then will the person be interested in the messages. If you don't play it right, the person may simply not respond and avoid these messages. You should be able to flirt with the person in real life also to make your texting more meaningful.
4. Avoid overly sexual texts: Sexual moves physically and through messages are usually initiated by men. But using texting for this purpose can affect you negatively if you try to use it early and overly. The person may be confused or feel weird if she gets overly sexual texts time and again. The attraction may go off and affect you badly. So try to avoid overly sexual texting. Such moves are fine when you are with the person. This will give you a better chance to know her response.
5. Flirting with intention: When you are dating you need to use the texting tool very carefully so that you can achieve what you want easily. Always plan carefully and try to set up a date. If you are looking for fun and something more than just talking, you need to make the moves accordingly. When you keep these things in mind it will be easy for you to flirt and make things go forward in a natural way.