, it might be advisable to debate every minor details. If his children are underneath his custody, are you comfortable living with them? Do you're thinking that they will accept you into their lives? Are you relating well with them or they resent you? A marriage institution is as among the hardest establishments to maintain. Otherwise why do you think divorce cases have risen to unprecedented levels nowadays? Be certain of yourself, settle and agree on all problems of concern before committing yourself especially when dating a divorced man.