After cheating on your wife there are all kinds of right and wrong steps you can make
. There is no perfect solution, in this situation, to save your marriage but there are many things you can do that are almost sure to end it. Here are a few steps you could take that just might prove fatal to any hopes you have of saving your marriage or winning your wife back.
1.The mistress. This is the most fatal error that you can commit, to see the other woman again. There is no reason for you to see her again, unless there are inevitably circumstances like you work in the same company or something like that. This is the right opportunity for you to make an effort in changing your lifestyle and habits so that you will not bump into her if you are serious in saving your marriage. The last thing that you want right now is for your wife to wonder if you are making ways in seeing your other woman again.
2.No time for your wife. After learning that you've cheated on her, your wife will feel susceptible to all sorts of emotions. This is the time that she will feel all alone. Take this opportunity to make her feel that she is the only woman for you and assure her of your love. Let her feel your presence. Make her your priority and try to avoid staying up late in the office as much as possible so that you can spend more time with her. Instead of having your regular boy's night out, spend the night with your wife.
3)Don't lock yourself away in a room with a hobby or your computer. If you're working like crazy to save your marriage then now is the time to show your commitment by participating in your marriage. She needs to know that you're really with her and not simply sharing a zip code. Be there. Talk to her. Work on building a better rapport with her. Woo her all over again.
4.Bring back romance. Most men believe that romance will get the woman of their dreams and once he has her, it's done. This is not the case. Your wife needs romance. Be her knight in shining armor in the true sense of the word and not just a knight you will not fight unless covered with armor. Your effort will be rewarded accordingly and you might like it.