I often hear people complain to God that their life is unfair. They complain that how come they do not get any return from their hard work toward work, friendship, and relationship. God is unfair to everyone. He gives your life, but the colors in your life depend on your own doings. Everything you do there is a return. Many times the return is simply something you are not aware of. Who knows how much of these invisible happiness you have ignored throughout your life. It all depends on if you are willing to see them.
Love this word seems like something sweet. No matter men or women, they often are eager to find their one true love. I remember some people asked me if true love really exists. I believe it exists. But instead of over thinking and questioning if your love is true or the one I suggest you simply look at every relationship as a beautiful song in your life. Use your heart to focus on the happiness of the relationship. There is no need to have doubt and worries. By attaching to the idea of "one true love" too badly, it will only create pressure to the relationship and often times causing it to go wrong. Just live in the moment and feel the emotions of love and connection make is as beautiful as it can be.
Often times when a couple only started together, they share mutual understanding and are tolerant to each other. But over time, one person will feel like he (she) loves the other person so much that he (she) wants to own the person. This is not love but only the greed to own a person. True love is not something that can be written down on a paper and say "You are mine". True love happens naturally by itself and cannot be forced. It is important to appreciate the love you have instead of destroying it with the desire or the idea to own someone. No matter if you are married or simply a couple, it is important to learn how to be content with what you have. Do not let your greed blind you and destroy your relationship. Humans' desire to have more will never end. It is your will that must control it so you may obtain happiness.