The Mindset of Attracting Hot College Girls
The Mindset of Attracting Hot College Girls
By Tuan
Regarding the topic of attracting hot college girls, I have come to find out that there are two types of people: procrastinators and go-getters. Some of you know the procrastinator-side-of-life very well putting things off till the last minute, being "lazy" about most things that require work, and overall just not getting things done. I've been there, and yes it might work for passing courses and getting the grades, but when it comes to meeting girls, especially hot college girls that are worth meeting (ones that have an active lifestyle, hobbies, enjoy life on another level, and not to mention attractive!), the procrastinator mindset just doesn't cut it.
With this article I plan to raise your level of awareness especially with the mindset of meeting attractive women and cute girls in a college setting. Look, you have to understand is this is *NOT* a numbers game, what I mean by that is that you're not playing the odds hoping to get "lucky". It all starts with you.
Here are two pointers that can help you:
understand the mindsets of women from their perspective
work on yourself
First of all, Women Want Men. Think about the reason why they do all that make-up, clothing, spas / tanning salons and shopping. It's for YOU. I personally know of tons of girls who have more money than me, getting big breaks in, real estate, sales and modeling because of their looks. But at the end of the day, despite the apparent "sameness' between men and women via status and resources there is still something missing in women's lives: A MASCULINE FORCE.
Instill in your head that all those resources, all the nights of going out women do, and the hours and hours of getting ready and the constant "Cosmo-girl" insecurity, is all for one purpose: Snagging a cool guy like YOU!
The second thing is working on yourself, I really believe you attract what you project, and a good energy and vibe Cannot be faked. If your into something, find interest groups for that. Whether it's dancing, physical fitness, culinary arts, etc. Become good at that. The bottom line is that this tackles the issue of having a hobbies and an actual lifestyle. For me, I've been immensely involved with language-learning (East Asian Languages), and taking control of my own physical fitness via working out, P90X, and Boxing.
You have to give yourself permission to succeed with women. It starts with Self-Perception. And if you don't see yourself as a person who deserves a woman, then you've shot yourself in the foot already before you've gone to battle.
Seriously, if you're a kiss-ass, agreeable, and no-back bone nice guy, then you have to change this! I was once a muffin, and I was in the friend-zone with 90% of the women I knew.
Have the mentality of "I'd rather stand for what I believe in rather than stay in the comfortable friend's zone and never get the respect, admiration, and sexual attraction from women." Once I started respecting myself for my beliefs and my values I didn't need others to validate that for me.
It all starts with having an opinion on things (Anything and Everything, but indifference is a no-no!), because NOBODY can take that away from you.
It's not a magic pill that will work overnight, but over time, with all that in line, your own self confidence and awareness will be through the roof (from having a lifestyle and an opinion on things. And That, my friend, is the mindset of meeting hot girls in college (or attractive women, anywhere).
In conclusion I hope this helps you in your path to being a ladies man. If you want to read more real advice on being a Man that Women Want (not to mention free, with tons of free podcasts and content), check out http://www.troydizondating.com
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