The Most Powerful Tool That You Can Use To Get Your Girl Back
The Most Powerful Tool That You Can Use To Get Your Girl Back
Do you know that you're probably not utilizing the most powerful tool at your disposal for getting your girl back? Did you know that you are actually probably working against yourself if you are serious about getting her back? If you are like most guys you are actually doing more damage than good as you attempt to get your ex to change her mind and come back to you.
Have you tried talking to your ex or tried being nice to her? Have you bought her presents or even given her presents that you said that you bought for her before the breakup? Do you feel the need to call her or email her to text her under the presumption that you are "just checking on her" or do you feel the need to tell her that you love her still? Yep, you got it bad and you're hurting your chances of getting her back
Sometimes The Best Thing To Do Is - There is an old saying that sometimes the best thing to do is nothing at all. When in doubt or if it seems like nothing that you're doing is working and everything that you do only makes things worse then doesn't it make sense to do nothing. That's right! Nothing at all. Just kick back and give your ex some time to think about what is going on. Give her some time to realize how much she has hurt you. Allow some time to pass and for emotions to settle down before you move forward with any plan that you might have to get her back.
You might worry that your ex will forget about you or that she will just go off with another guy. First of all, she isn't going to forget about you or forget that you still love her. Even if she does wonder if you still love her, make her be the one to search you out and ask you herself. Make her be the one to come to you with questions in her mind, and you know that she will if you play things right.
It Killed The Cat! That's right! Make her curious about what happened to you and your attention. Make her curious about what happened to you. Sure, at first she is going to say that she is relieved that you finally got the message. She will tell all her friends that you're not bothering her anymore. She'll still be riding high off of her bloated ego that you helped to create but soon she will begin to miss you and how it felt to have you pay attention to her. That will be when she becomes as curious as a cat and start to poke around in your life to see what's going on.
Soon she will begin to feel bad about how she treated you and as the loneliness begins to creep in she will start to remember the good times you had and the nice things that you did for her. She may or may not reach out to you and try getting back in touch with you. She might just try contacting your friends or family or start doing a little stalking by driving by your house or checking out any social media sites that you might be on. So keep your cards close to your vest and don't share with anyone how you feel about her or that you miss her or that you want her back.
When the time is right and you are ready to get back in touch with her remember that it is emotions that are going to get her to change her mind and want to get back together with you. It will be the fact that you have the ability to make her feel passion and love in her heart as well as a longing to be close to you that will push her to begin chasing you. No amount of logic will get her to change her mind but if you can push her emotional hot buttons and make her feel desire and passion you will win her back without a problem.