The Seven Warning Signs That Your Marriage May Be In Trouble

Divorce sometimes is a better alternative but only you and your spouse can determine that

. If getting a divorce is the decision, the sooner you deal with it the better youll become more emotionally stable and able to cope with the situation. Divorces can be devastating on the entire family, especially if you let them linger before reaching an amiable breakup.

There are signs of trouble in marriage and theyre easier to resolve if you spot them early on. Small problems turn into big ones if you let your emotions get out of control. You may have seen some of these signs of trouble before the marriage but didnt view them as problems. Why? There is more truth than not in the old saying that love is blind.

You may have married in spite of your better wisdom and hoped your partner would change or thought you could work your magic charm and change your spouse. This rarely happens. So, what are some of the signs of a troubled marriage?

1. You no longer have fun with each other. No matter what you do, you wish you would have stayed at home and both of you are miserable.

2. Compliments are rare or non existent. Neither of you say anything nice about the other. On the contrary, criticisms are on the increase. You cant do anything right and become afraid to do anything and withdrawl.

3. Youre happier when your spouse is gone. The only time you can relax is when he or she is not at home and you can enjoy being yourself.

4. Neatness could be a problem if the other is a slob or a person who clutters and never puts anything away. One is always picking up behind the other.

5. One tries to save and the other spends money frivolously. This can be a major problem if bills go unpaid.

6. A lack of intimacy or sexual activity is a classic example of a lack of love in a marriage. It could also indicate that one or both of you are involved in an affair.

7. You on longer can agree on future goals and refuse to discuss anything beyond tomorrow.

If you want additional help with your marriage issues, qualified help can be found in person, in books or online. The sooner you decide to get help, the better. Proglonged marriage problems that are not dealt with can lead to depression and anger that can affect the whole family Be on the look out for these warning signs of a troubled marriage and if you begin to notice them, take action immediately.

by: Dennis Leese

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