Tips To Make Your Marriage Successful

Marriage is said to be a sacrament, a relationship yet so pure and yet so serene

. Indeed it is a union of two hearts and two souls. But it is not an easy task to make your married life successful. It requires consistent efforts on the part of both the partners not just once but throughout the life.

Multitudes of tips are available to make your married life successful which if followed will indeed act as a great help in your marriage. You need to be patient and composed in your relationship, never ever expect too much from your spouse, you should always remember that he too has his own limitations and capabilities. Always remember to keep your marriage above everything else in this world, this implies giving your spouse ample amount of time, listening to him and being always supportive and cooperative in each of his endeavors. Even if you disagree with him, you need to tell him in a way which doesnt hurt him and should always put your valid reasons before him.

Greet your spouse with a smile most of the time; this goes a long way in building a long lasting relation. Try to resolve your personal matters without getting a third person involved, this indubitably will give much strength and confidence to your relationship.

Proper communication is a must in a marriage. If you hide things from each other than definitely the roots of the relationship will slowly start to shake and none can save your marriage, so in case of any misinformation or confusion be direct and straight forward and try to clear the problem then and there alone. No need to share animosity and resentment later on. Just accept the fact that no one is born perfect in this world. So accept your spouse as he is. Prince Charmings and Cindrelllas are the concept well suited to just films and novels. In real life treat your partner as your be all and end all and you shouldnt have any regrets about that.

Trust is said to be the bedrock of the married life. Always have trust on each other. Never speak a lie as this can create an ill will and you even can lose the respect of your spouse. Try to keep jealousy and deceit as far as possible. Yet another cause of worry most often seen is the money matters. Many times the marriages have fallen on this trivial issue. Money indeed is important but both of you should sit and decide on all the financial matters- how the budget of the house will move, how much to spend etc. This way there wouldnt be any complaints.

At times the relationships tend to grow weak primarily because of ego hassles. This however shouldnt be the case if you want to have a loving life. Often job and children become the cause of dispute between the couples. Try to settle all the matters amicably, remember that by fighting you are simply spoiling your day and weakening your love and affection towards each other.

You are special and it is your duty to make your partner even more special. Try to spend time with each other, show that you care, show that you consider him/her your eternal world so that when at the end of life both of you look back, you only have beautiful memories to remember and cherish forever and ever.

by: Shadaan Alam

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