Trusting Each Other

When meeting someone new, do you prefer to be trusted until you have done something to prove yourself unworthy of trust (e.g

. your relationship with your newborn), or do you prefer to earn his or her trust over time (most of our relationships with everyone else)? Which type of relationship is more satisfying, creative, and abundant with possibility (if you can accept that you have a choice)?

For the last 5 years, I have run a business in which each employee stood between the door and tens of thousands of dollars per week of my cash. If we even projected the slightest amount of mistrust to new employees, we would most likely reject the best people that would work for us. We focused on creating programs, dispositions, and a culture for which the primary intention was engaging the best attributes in other human beings and we got the best from them, from the best in them.

When we created programs with the primary intent to prevent theft or protect ourselves, people would find new and creative ways to steal. Did we have systems in place to detect and announce impropriety? Of course, but it was not our primary focus. Did people still steal? Of course, but we would not poison the water and create a system-wide reaction for something that was not a system-wide problem. If we entered situations unsure of our potential to recover and thrive from even the worst of situations (i.e. letting subtle fear overcome us), we would suffer.

You can never harm me in a way that will not make me stronger. You (or anyone else) can never touch or taint the most valuable parts of me, and yes, that includes potentially taking my life. So what do I have to be afraid of?

Specifically, what do I have to fear from you?

Or more positively - what potential exists if I honor, respect and engage you throughout our relationship with the zest and connection of an enthused infant (if you can accept that I have a choice)?

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