Don't go to pieces if someday your loved one walks up to you and says, "It's over..." Many relationships can be salvaged and romance rekindled if you know the proper break-up etiqueet. Following are ten things you can do today to get started on the path towards reconciliation.
1. Give them space. Don't confuse their decision by trying to get them back the very next day. People need time to think.
2. Be gentle when speaking to your ex. They are probably still hurting and the last thing you want to do is provoke violence or harassment.
3. Treat your ex like a good friend, don't be weird to them when you see them in public.
4. Don't be attached. Learn how to do things on your own without your ex.
5. Speak to a good friend. Sometimes you need a third party to help you see things from another view.
6. Don't blame yourself. As much as you want to, you can never tell what someone is thinking. You have no idea the true reason for the breakup.
7. Don't be angry or vengeful. Your partner had to make a hard decision, respect it and give them a little time to see if it is what they really want.
8. Don't argue or speak ill of your partner in front of children. Many times children don't understand all the emotions in a relationship and tend to blame themselves when adults are arguing. Avoid that.
9. Avoid large showers of gifts in an effort to get your ex back. When the time is right you can buy a small birthday or Christmas gift, but certainly do not try to buy their affection. Don't let the pain of losing them make a fool out of you.
10. Be clear about your intentions. When the time is right let your ex know you want to give it one more shot.
Use some of these tips and your break up may just turn into a make up! Good luck!