Turning Point
A recent survey of midlife women conducted by More magazine revealed some interesting (and not surprising) results
. When asked to define the most important aspects of a great job, in addition to a good salary and benefits, midlife women told More they need:
Meaning to feel that theyre contributing positively 98%
A job in a growing field with a bright future 89%
A high level of freedom or control 87%
A job thats appropriate for a woman over 40 79%
A chance to work a flexible schedule 73%
I know these elements are certainly essential to me. One of the main reasons I took the leap to become an entrepreneur in midlife was to fulfill many of these same outcomes, although my career path is a bit different than the norm, since most of it has been based on doing work that enabled me to feel I was contributing positively, and that generally took priority over salary and benefits. As Ive gotten older Ive decided that I need more of a merging between money and meaning, and have learned that its possible, even necessary, to have them both as front line goals.
When I say the results of the survey arent surprising, its because this is what I consistently here from my clients and other midlife women I talk with when it comes to what they want in a career at this stage of their lives. In our younger years its understandable that the focus might be more on the financial aspects of getting ahead. Climbing the corporate ladder or navigating any organization requires focus and tenacity in order to reach the pinnacle of success. Theres no shame in that. These are honorable goals. I think what happens, though, is as we age into our 40s and 50s our goals shift. They become more expansive. They become about more than just ourselves; they become more about how we relate to the world around us, and how we can take what weve learned, what weve built over the years, and create a lasting legacy. Its that search for significance I tend to write so much about.
Many women reach a crossroads in their 40s and early 50s where career alone is not enough to sustain them. Theyre professional life is starting to feel like a tight pair of shoes. Its no longer fitting them and the life they want to lead. They are searching for something more. For some that means travelling a totally new path; for others it means finding a way to reconnect with their career in a way that is more meaningful and more heart-centered. The reasons may vary, but the need is often the same: to merge money and meaning in a way that enables women to achieve a more sacred kind of success.
It can be a painful place to be, and there are often painful questions that need to be asked such as: When did I let my life become not my own? When did I lose touch with myself? How can I be so financially successful and feel so personally bankrupt? While it might feel like that old song Is This All There Is? I know having been there that it isnt. There is so much more. Theres a life that has you bounding out of bed with enthusiasm; a life where you control what you do and how you do it; a life of balance, power, passion, and purpose.
Theres an authentic you showing up for that life; a you who uses your one-of-a-kind voice, abilities, and talents; a you who hasnt checked one single part of yourself at the door; a you who has explored your core and has tapped into your unlimited wealth. And theres your own personal vision for your sacred success: the kind of success that makes a difference in the lives of others; the kind of success that merges money and meaning; the kind of success that creates purposeful work and a lasting legacy.
One of my favorite quotes is by George Eliot who wrote: Its never too late to be who you might have been. Ladies, who do you want to be on this next journey?
***Because this is such a driving force in the lives of so many midlife business women, Ive put together a free one-hour teleclass:Your Turning Point: The First Step Toward Your Extraordinary Life Waiting for You thats scheduled for January 12, 2010 at 12:00 p.m. ET/9:00 a.m. PT. The only thing you need to commit to is 60 minutes of your time, and Id love to have you be a part of the conversation and the journey. If this feels like something youd like to explore, you can learn more by following this link: http://www.evelynkalinosky.com/programs-and-services/1238.
by: Evelyn Kalinosky, CRC
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