Tuxedoed Men And Groom Dynamics

Wedding days are obviously, made to be perfect for the bride and the groom

. It is their day, of course. Their union in the holy and sacred vows is made to be public. It is one of the ultimate climaxes of their love story, and the day is supposed to happen like it does in fairytales and in movies. The day itself would be sunny, as the wedding bells resonate in the air. The bride and the groom will be showered with flowers and ribbons, and doves will hover all around them as if they are in celebration as well. Of course, things are more complicated than that in real life.

To ensure this kind of fairytale wedding day, some people have to be present and working for it. These people are, most often, family and friends. They arrange everything to perfection, down to the last detail. A thousand times, it has been written how the bridesmaids make everything perfect for the bride. This time, though, it is time to give thanks to the men behind the dashing and confident groom. These men are no other than the groomsmen. They prepare the groom for the big day and give him advice to make him man up for the event. Unknown to many, a man's circle of friends is similar to that of the ladies. The only difference is that while ladies go over their predicaments while shopping, over the phone, and during their manicure and pedicure salon sessions, men do it, oftentimes, over beer and pizza.

Without groomsmen, the groom will not appear as confident as he looks during the ceremony itself. They are his support system. Though men are less emotional during these events, there is an unspoken agreement among them of what to do and how to back up each other. Because of these friendships, weddings go smoothly.

The role of the groomsmen is often unnoticed but, they vital to the ceremony. They do more than stand beside the groom during the ceremony: they seat guests, carry the rings, and everything else in between. Thus, it is only good that they be given presents to commemorate their participation in one of the most important events of a couple's life. Giving gifts to groomsmen is a bit tricky. One must think of it thoroughly and carefully because they are going to remember these gifts. Some of the common groomsmen gifts are hip flasks, barware, cufflinks, pocket watches, and beer mugs. These gifts are not as expensive and as complicated as the gifts women give their bridesmaids, but they hold meaning for men nonetheless.

They are not emotional, but they make sure to be behind each other's backs all the time. They bond over drinking and pizza as a stress reliever, but they don't really talk about serious things. They carry their best bud's wedding ring and stand beside him at the altar even when they, once upon a time, had talks of never getting hitched. It's a complicated and yet amusing friendship and they deserve a special gift for all they do

by: Brenda Favors

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