Understanding The Differences Of Relatoinship Dynameics Of Men And Women
The wife husband relationship can be a complicated one
. A significant amount of marriages end in divorce because either person fails to understand the dynamics of their relationship If even one person has a basic understanding of it, the marriage is bound to be stronger. But if both people understand how a wife husband relationship works, then it has the best chance of being a good marriage.When faced with a problem, for instance, men and women tend to approach it from completely different angles. Women are more likely to discuss it with other people. They might get advice and input from a few friends. Its not uncommon for women to talk about the problem at length.
Thats because women solve problems when they talk about them. They investigate all the angles of the issue and how they feel about it, and often in doing so a solution appears.
Men, on the other hand, tend to be more tight-lipped about problems. They think about it more than they talk about it. Its more common for a man to ponder a problem and say little until hes figured out the solution.
In the wife husband relationship this big difference in problem solving can itself be a problem. He might think that shes talking it to death when she should be trying to figure it out herself. And she might think hes not even worried about something because hes not talking about it .When in reality, its on his mind all the time and hes just not pointing it out.
At times, women tend to talk about things that they dont necessarily want help with, or advice about. They simply want someone to listen to their opinion and thoughts. Where if a man is speaking about something, its because he wants an answer.
If a woman is talking about something just to get it off her chest or vent, other women tend to get that and offer support. They dont try to tell her what to do for the most part, but simply enter in the conversation in empathy.
A man might merely state a solution and tell the woman what she should do, thinking hes being very helpful and doing what hes supposed to. But really, the woman will feel that hes not listening and instead just trying to end the conversation.
Understanding those patterns can help you stop yourself before you do something thats natural to you. Try to understand what your partner might need from you insteadYour wife husband relationship will be much stronger and happier because of it.
by: Dennis Leese