Many times our self esteem can be directly related to our relationship with someone
. It doesnt matter is its a marriage or we are dating. We hope a relationship will bring out the best in us but sometimes we find it is the root of our issues. We always hope to find the person we dream to be the one we will be with forever, but it does not always work out that way. There can be conflict that goes on between the couple and you have to find out what the issue is. Is this issue something that has originated from some problem between the two of you or did one of you bring a problem from a previous relationship into the new? It can be stressful trying to find the root of the problem but it is necessary if the two of you want to resolve the problem you are having. Reading self help books can help you understand how to use different techniques to fix your relationship. It may not be easy to fix things, but if the two of you are really in love you should be making an all out effort. If your relationship has been a strong one, you should have a good partner to help overcome problems you may have brought to your new relationship. They should be willing to endure whatever issue you may have to overcome and with their help you may find that your new relationship will grow stronger. Try your best not to criticize each other over things, this can only make things worse, be constructive not destructive. Criticism will only make a person feel less of themselves or even less of the person criticizing. Dont create a power struggle between the two of you; this will create an atmosphere that will never allow you to resolve your issues.