Using The No Contact Rule To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
Getting your ex boyfriend back is all about one thing: making him miss you! No matter what happened
, the present state of your relationship is not going to change until you have made your ex boyfriend miss you. By the time he starts reflecting on your relationship, thinking about the good times you had together, and recalling how it feels to hold you in his arms again that is when he will be ready to reverse the break up. Your aim now is to get him to that point by your actions and words.
As you read this article youll learn:
The most common mistakes people make after a breakup
What types of contact need to be avoided to make him miss you
Why cutting all contact works to your advantage
Its Not Over Yet
The most common mistake we as humans make when were trying to get someone back after a breakup it to contact them incessantly because we think that they will move on without us overnight. However, the reality of the situation is much different than what we think and Ill show you.
Imagine that you were the one who broke it off with your ex boyfriend? Do you think you would move on right away? Of course not! You need to factor in the point that you two had a history together and that the pain of the breakup is going to last for a while before either of you does anything else with anyone.
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Types of Contact to Avoid with your Ex Boyfriend
Now that you know why your ex boyfriend isnt going to run off with someone else right after the breakup, the next thing you need to do is to get him to think about you by not contacting him. The theory behind this is simple: We want what we cant have or dont currently have and so if your ex boyfriend doesnt have any contact with you it stands to reason that at some point he will want to.
However you have to be strong and commit to not contacting him under any circumstances. This means:
No Text Messaging
No Facebook
No Twitter
No Phone Calls
No Messaging Through Friends
I think you get the picture. You need to cut all communication with him or else hell never start to miss you.
Does It Work?
Hell yeah this works! But it only works if you follow through on the no contact part. If you slip and drop him a tiny how are you doing? text, then youve given the power during the breakup back to him. As your ex boyfriend looks around to find out how you are dealing with the break up, he should see nothing and I guarantee that after a few weeks of this your ex boyfriend is definitely going to come searching for you.
He will do it under the guise of calling to see how youre doing, or probably he will make up some lame excuse to stop by your house and pick up something that belongs to him. He is going to be curious, and when he calls you will need to know what to say. Dealing with your ex boyfriends phone call correctly is an important part to winning him back.
Read more on how to deal with your ex boyfriends phone call
If your ex boyfriend suggests a place and time to meet up, do not completely commit. Yeah, I think that is probably okay. Call me next week though, and we will see.
Various things just occurred during the call. Initially, you crushed your exs expectations that youd be very excited to hear from him. Therefore your ex boyfriend will get the feeling that you are not sweating him at all. In fact in his eyes you seemed to busy to be bothered with him which leaves him feeling like youve moved on. Are you going out someone else? How come youre so busy? You ex boyfriend will think about these things, however since he is not your boyfriend any more its not really his place to ask.
The End Result
by: Kurt Foulks
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