Vital Steps Towards Your Life Goals

Life moves on each day of the week, things alter: babies are born

, people pass away, others are made jobless, others win the lottery, someone different moves in next door, your favourite store on the main street shuts, a modern shopping and entertainment area is built on some neighborhood wasteland. Life moves on. There's nothing we can do about it. But the thing we can achieve is move with the changes. Take advantage of life. Live it. Nobody really wants to live in the past where nothing changes. You know you need to adjust even if it's enforced on you. So why not be ahead of the game and live life to the full. Are you prepared? Are you keen to take your life to a higher level? A level where you can take advantage of whatever the world is offering you and you can take charge of wherever your life is headed? If you've answered yes, that's great as you are putting yourself on a track towards a better, more fulfilled exciting life.

Make Conscious Decisions

Sounds straightforward but making conscious decisions as opposed to drifting with the current is not as painless as it seems. Every day you reach thousands of decisions. Some decisions you don't even think about, others you make unconsciously, a few you decide on impulse but you NEED to be aware that certain decisions can affect the remainder of your life. What you need to fix is to THINK and set the rational part of your brain into action more. Make certain to you allocate yourself space to think and reach the correct decisions. You can pay attention to the advice of others but you are in control of your own life and you have got to reach the ultimate decisions. If you have forever been shy you can transform that by making the decision to change and to make yourself feel self-confident. If you are heavy you can make a decision to dine healthily wherever workable, you can make a conscious decision each instance you are offered an unhealthy option to say no an seek a healthy alternative. Life is about choices, it's about decisions. Our life is the end result of the decisions we've taken so far.

"Choices are the hinges of destiny" Attributed to both Edwin Markham and Pythagoras.

What Do You Really Want From Life?

Sounds impressive doesn't it? But of course you are here just the once (for argument's sake) and it's up to you to decide what kind of life you wish for and more importantly what are you planning to do about it. What do you really wish for, what do you envision as being successful? Is it meeting the ideal partner, making lots of money, being a surfer all day, being a doctor, being a terrific dad or mom? A useful start is to take a sheet of paper and write down all the things you wish for to make you a success in your eyes. This will provide you your goals, that as soon as you have achieved them you would feel successful. Now you need to think about them and how you will complete them, chunk them into manageable steps eg if you would like to write a best seller, you might start with chunking this goal into manageable targets of writing a page a day. By the end of a year you would come up with a 365 page manuscript. Look at all of your goals and start by chunking them down and giving yourself time deadlines. You instantly have a strategy to obtain whatever you wish for in life. Each week look at how you are doing and amend and adjust it if needed. Don't be too tough on yourself but remember it's your life only you can live it.

"It is never too late to be who you might have been." George Eliot

Think Positively and Expect good Results

Sounds a bit old hat doesn't it. You might waste all your life wishing you could set eyes on a polar bear in the North Pole but if you don't save the money and get a ticket you are never going to go! It's no good looking back on your life once you are 90 saying if only I'd set that small business up... if only I'd taken that job.. if only I'd been kinder to...If only... Hindsight is marvellous if only we could take advantage of it as we reach the decisions. We are normally much wiser following the event. Learning from experience gives you the confidence to try unusual things. To achieve your end result or goal you need to think about how you are planning to get there. Your mind needs to be receptive and flexible to all opportunities. Don't be too rigid you need to adapt to all the possibilities around you. Be committed to your goals and targets, expect to achieve success but at all times be aware of opportunities that are open to you, be receptive and flexible to the options that life is presenting to you.

"It is easy to sit up and take notice. What is difficult is getting up and taking action." Al Batt Writer and Speaker

Trust yourself

Some call it a gut feeling, others call it intuition. Some significant inventions and ideas turn up when you are not even thinking about it. Some even come in your sleep. The mind is a fabulous tool, millions of times better than any computer. We merely need to trust it more. These significant ideas come from when the mind is in a relaxed state and is not under pressure and has space to dedicating itself to creative and productive thinking. Now you are getting your goals and thoughts under control; you are making conscious decisions; you have identified whatever you wish for in life; you are receptive to different opportunities and are expecting success; now maybe one of the hardest things is you need to have trust and gain confidence in yourself. It's simple to blame others and circumstances for things not going very well in your life but you need to take responsibility for whatever's gone on in the past. Don't try to over analyse whatever's happened in the past, merely know it's happened and let your mind be free for all coming decisions. It's right now time to trust yourself to take responsibility and direction for your life so that you can develop your full capability and be the person you aspire to be.

This article was written by Dee Brady the creator of www.secretsocialskills.com where you can find more information on beating lack of confidence.

by: Dee Brady

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