Make her realize that you will not repeat this thing ever in your life
. This will not degrade you rather improves your dignity and value in her eyes. Sometimes we think that if the other person is not complaining, it is all right. But the thing is that in these relations you have to feel your spouse by heart rather than her to tell you about the matter. Here you have to make your feelings strong to feel her in you. Romance is one of the favorite key to tell your wife that how much you love her. Give her proper time on bed and ask her to choose your dress for the office. While going on a party, tell her to wear particular dress and give her gifts as gifts are the key to enter into ones heart.