What To Do If You Suspect Your Spouse May Be Straying
When you spouse cheats on you it is an emotional storm that feels like it might overwhelm you
, but beyond the emotions there are other very real dangers.
Dangers like threats to your finances and physical dangers like being exposed to all types of diseases. Then there is the damage such affairs inflect on children and other family members. The damage caused by cheating often reaches way beyond just the couple involved. It is really a sin against the family.
If you are feeling insecure about your spouse and you have no history of paranoia, then there are probably really good reasons for these feelings. Perhaps you have been observing things like the following:
1. Your partner starts caring about their appearance. They may start working out and getting new clothes. We are talking about these things being a change from their normal behavior.
2. Your spouse starts making excuses for staying at work or claims they suddenly are needed to go on week end trips for work.
3. Maybe you noticed that they have stopped sharing their thoughts with you and seem distracted.
4. The also might start being secretive about their cell phone and start leaving the room when taking certain calls. There are many other signs you may also be subconsciously picking up on that has triggered your 6th sense.
So What Do You Do?
The most important thing you can do is find out the truth and there are several ways you can do this. For instance, you turn the tables by pretending to go away for the week end, but instead, staying in town and observe your spouse.
You could hire a private detective to follow your spouse and create a report for you. You can also go through your spouses pockets and cell phone to see what might be there.
There are also high-tech ways of checking up on what your spouse is up to on the Internet and their cell phone. These ways are often faster and a lot less expensive than hiring a private detective. They are also a lot less risky than following your spouse yourself. These high-tech methods also have the added advantage of being totally discreet, you and only you will know what you are doing. The bottom line is, you need to do what it takes to discover the truth before you or your family gets hurt any worse.