What's on His Mind – The Way to Get Your Man Reveal His True Feelings
What's on His Mind The Way to Get Your Man Reveal His True Feelings
Do you tend to often ask your man what he's thinking about? Are you tired of the same old response and you really want him to open up and tell you about his real thoughts? Have you noticed how frustrated he is by your constant harping, but you just can't help yourself? Women love to talk and talk about everything they have going on in their head and they expect the guy to be willing to do the same. However, many men don't have that great need to gab. So how can you figure him out? Read on.
As silly as it might seem, when a guy tells you that he's not thinking of anything in particular it's usually true. Chances are he's simply thinking of his next meal, the last ball game he saw or the cool car that just passed by.
But if you think there might be a problem you need to talk out and he's holding back you still need to be careful and avoid pushing him into sharing his thoughts with you.
One of the reasons a man will hold back is past experiences talking to you. If you're in the habit of ripping his head off when he tells you something unpleasant, it's understandable that he becomes reluctant to talk to you. Whether you've been with him a few months or a few years, it's always important for you to be able to accept what he has to say to you.
Most women will either deny or completely blow up when a guy tells them something negative. Not only does this encourage him to clam up, but you're not learning anything about a potential problem in your relationship.
Be receptive then give him some space. He needs to know he can tell you anything and that you'll be there when he finally does open up. Let him have a chance to work things out in his head. Without your pressure and with the assurance that you'll hear him out, he'll open up and tell you what's on his mind.