When Trying To Get Your Ex Back, There Are Three Things To Consider
If someone dumped you, you will automatically ask yourself what you did wrong
. There would be endless nights of questioning, longing and just pure self-pity. However, you should not sulk in bed. If you really love the person and you think that there is still hope and that person still loves you, you have to do your best to get him or her back! Read these simple steps on how to get ex back:1) Let your ex miss you.
Do you not know the thrill of the chase? If you keep chasing your ex and you keep calling him or her, sending him or her countless e-mails and text messages, he or she will not miss you. He or she will simply think that you are really a loser. You are pathetic and you are desperate. Do not boost his or her ego. What you should do is to let the ego down and then he or she will surely go back to you. Stop the sending of e-mails or text messages. Stop the calls or the popping out wherever he or she is. To get your ex back, let your ex miss you. When you stop chasing, he or she will be the one chasing after you for sure.
2) Look good.
The best revenge is looking good. Stop sulking in bed and instead do something productive that will make you look better and feel better. Inside of bingeing and lying in bed all day crying, go to the gym. Shed off those extra pounds so the next time your ex will see you, he or she will swoon over how you got over him or her so fast. People think that when someone breaks up with you, you should look like a zombie and you are sad. Reverse that misconception and show your ex that you weren't thinking about him or her. Again, go back to rule 1: the thrill of the chase. When you learn the art of getting back your ex, it will be easy to roll him or her in your fingers.
3) Think better.
Your looks should not only be your primary concern. Sure, you look good but what do you say when you open your mouth? Make sure that while you hit the gym, you also think about what happened in your relationship, what you did wrong and what went wrong. When you have the answers to these questions, only then will you be able to make sure that you are actually ready to meet your ex again.
When you contact your ex or see him or her again, make sure that you do not look like you are too hungry to get back together. Just be casual and be normal even if you are dying to get back together, kiss him and so on. For girls, do not wear something too pretty or too revealing. For guys, don't overdo it too. When you look decent and happy, you will surely get your ex back.
by: Robert Mcdonough