When Your Wife Wants a Divorce and You Don't – What NOT to Do to Stop a Potential Divorce!

When your wife wants a divorce and you don't, you may feel like you can't breathe

. Your back is up against a wall and you start acting on pure instincts. That means that you may do or say things that you may regret later. If you want to save your marriage, don't make the following mistakes.

Don't Make Ultimatums Your Not Willing to Follow Through With

You're angry, frustrated, hurt and scared. Your family may be ripped apart because your wife wants a divorce. It's not unexpected for a husband to start making outrageous ultimatums like "If you walk out that door, don't ever come back".

Of course there are stronger ones like "I'll make sure you never see the kids" or "I'll make sure you won't live in this house". This is the wrong road to travel if you want to save your marriage. Although your emotions are high, try to really think about what you are saying.

Don't Try to Make Her Jealous

Regardless of whether or not cheating was involved, trying to make her jealous to get back at her or get attention is the wrong thing to do. First, it's not fair to the women you use to make her jealous. Secondly, getting revenge or hurting her so she'll feel as bad as you is not the way to win her back.

Don't Blame Her for Everything

It's easy to blame-shift when you're hurting. Of course it's all her fault, she's the one asking for a divorce! But if you think clearly about it, you will understand that you played a role in your relationship issues.

Maybe your part was something huge like cheating. Even then it's possible to blame her for it by saying "You pushed me into by." or "I would never have cheated if you.". Get the picture?

When your wife wants a divorce and you don't, there are ways to save your marriage. You just have to know what to do and know what NOT to do.

When Your Wife Wants a Divorce and You Don't What NOT to Do to Stop a Potential Divorce!

By: T.D. Fraser

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